The Dipo puberty rites is a very prominent event which has
been carried out for years by krobos. It started from the top of Krobo
Mountains when a man called “PAPA ANA” married two wives. His first wife had
only girls and the second only boys. This was quiet traumatizing to the first
wife because krobos inherit partrilinearly. Meaning only the second wife’s children
could inherit their father. This made papa Ana come up with what we call “the
dipo rite”, which was purposely to bring pride to his daughters and their
mother and to prevent teenage pregnancy promiscuity until marriage.
When
his first daughter menstruated, he gave her gifts including gold, traditional
clay beads, scarfs, pieces of kente cloth and other valuables she needed as a
woman. He then assigned her to the eldest women in the family to train ,which
served as a form of vocational training as she was taught home keeping and
child bearing.
She was walked with in town as she danced” klama” to announce her new stage of life dressed up in colorful kente and adorned with a lot of beads on her neck, arms and waist.
She was walked with in town as she danced” klama” to announce her new stage of life dressed up in colorful kente and adorned with a lot of beads on her neck, arms and waist.
Unfortunately, the rites have undergone a number of changes
over the years.
Previously it was held at home within the duration of one
year but now in the shrines in the period of a week. This has gone a long way
preventing Christian parents from allowing their children to get involved. They
have food restrictions and are only allowed to drink from a well as a way of
pleasing the gods.
As a part of this rites, a goat is killed and the fat is
kept on the girls’ head with a hat and a leaf on their mouth. Which is not to
be removed or to fall else she will face the wrath of the gods.
They are taken to a fenced rock distanced from the shrine
which is believed to be a god and made to sit on, in order to determine her
virginity.
Any girl who is found
not to be a virgin is ostracized and treated as an outcast. And therefore needs
a set of purification rituals. If none of this happens, strong men are made to
carry the victorious girls at his back and run with at a fast pace back to the
shrine. These men are made to marry the girls as they say” he’s chosen by the
gods”.
It is so sad that we have turned what used to be glorifying
and beautiful to shame, spiritualism and human rite abuse.
Girls are made to
wear the very minimum clothing exposing their breast and other major
parts. They are also exposed to fear,
AIDS as one razor blade is used in shaving their hair. .
And heartbreakingly compelling these innocent girls to marry
men they do not love all in the name of tradition.
I so much agree with the conservationists when they say that
“if you want to practice tradition go back to the ways of your forefathers”.
Despite all the changes, krobos have managed to preserve this rite even though
among other tribes in Ghana is virtually non-existing.
Maintaining culture
and tradition is not all about appeasing the gods rather depicting our
forefathers.
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